I got a surprise call from someone today. Hmm..very "surprising" indeed. I was never expecting a call from this person, and neither was I wanting to be in touch with him.

Was in the ward when my Sg hp went off..

Me: Hello
Him: Hi Michelle. It's me.
Me: Who r u?
Him: Ben
Me: Ben? Who's Ben?
Him: Your friend? I talked to you quite some time back.
Me: Really? Sorry, I don't remember knowing any Bens.. Bye!

Then it suddenly struck me...I actually do know a few Bens..so as a courtesy, I sent a msg back to ask him for his surname.

And shit, it was the Ben which I so dread. My ex.

Apparently he just came back from the States (oh so he claimed) & happened to drive past my place, and he thought he'll ring me to see if I'm around and happy to have a meet up. Honestly, even if I'm in Sg, I'll NEVER ever want to see him again. I am still having a phobia with his pervertness, and the last I ever want is for him to get his hands on me.

We did communicate a little via sms today, and I'm sure I sounded rude in my msges. He claims that he do think about the past, while I just told him off that it's not worth remembering to me. Then he finally popped the question, "R u attached now?"

With that impression I have of him being a pervert, I was guessing he'll probably ask "Can he satisfy you?" if I were to tell him I'm attached (he did ask me that question before when I was attached to another guy after him), so just to cut things short, I told him I'm getting married soon. Muahaha...and then...he didn't reply anymore. Isn't that great?!

Dearie was pretty worked up when I told him about the surprise call...haha..and said he'll not let that guy off if he starts pestering me again. I don't know if Ben's still as sick, but anyway, I'm not intending to find out too. To me, he's sick before, and I rather think he's still sick now. Period.

Had a nice chat with Dearie today, which was a surprise, since I thought he'll be staying overnight at his friend's. Was really pleased to receive his sms this afternoon. And guess what?! I was back home from work earlier than usual, so I managed to catch up with Dearie!

I have no idea why Dearie is getting so serious now. He rattled on for hours about his plans of where to buy a house in Sg and in China, and even told me that he was viewing some furnitures today and have an idea of the type of interior decor he wants for our house. And then he went on telling me about the house lighting, how he has to plan to buy me a car if I migrate to China, wedding colour scheme, dinner venue, number of banquet tables etc etc.

It did get me a little excited, but to me, all that is going to happen a few years later. I see the point of us having to be serious about planning, yet I thought he sounded way too serious. And Dearie claims that this is the time to start planning seriously. He feels that it's almost time to settle down, now that we have more or less completed our education.

Everything was ok until the end when I thought he started sounding pretty stern for some reason. Have no idea why. Perhaps he's really thinking wayyyyyyy tooooo much now. Perhaps he's tired.

Oh well.

Will be looking forward to chatting again with him tmr.