What the hell is wrong with some ppl?!

I'm blogging this while feeling darn pissed off.

I'm wondering why some ppl are so.......ARGH!!!!

I just can't understand why some ppl, having asked for a favour, end up demanding u do stuffs for them..and if it doesn't work, they start getting pissed off with u. "Excuse me, do u think u're the only one who will feel pissed?! I'm just pissed off cos of u too ya noe?!"

I was asked to do a favour for one of my friends in Sg. Had to help her check out if her UK hp will work in Sg, so that she can call UK. I did that. Then she asked me to go buy her a top card card since there's no credit left on her UK hp. I did that. Gave her the top up card number, and apparently, she realised her UK hp has got no reception, meaning..she can't call the number I gave her to top up her credit. Then she started pestering me many times a day about why that's so. Then asked me to go to the shops and check for her again. And even asked me to call up the hp company. I got quite irritated cos my sg hp kept beeping continuously, and every msg had 'URGENT' in it, meaning, I HAVE to reply asap. It's pissing cos I'm busy in hospital, and how the hell am I gonna reply every msg immediately? Plus, I definitely have to reply her msges, and it's NOT cheap manz!

The hospital isn't near the city either, and with the totally crap 9-5 working hrs in UK, how the hell am I gonna go to the shops ALL THE TIME?! What can I do if I don't make it there before 5? And by right, I should never be able to make it to the shops on weekdays since I'm obligated to stay till 5 from Mon-Fri (which fortunately, I don't have to since I get to sneak off if there's nothing very much to do for the day). And because of her hp issue, I had to make myself go to the city like 5 times just to solve her stupid hp problem.

And the craziest thing is..her sg hp is working..why can't she use it to call UK? If it's too ex, then use the house phone to call. She said that she called, but no one in the hp company picked up her call, hence, she wants me to call for her. That's so INSANE! If no one picked it up, does it mean if I call, they will pick up? What insane rubbish. Not to mention, I stated time n time again that I am in HOSPITAL and CAN'T leave as and when I want in dunno how many sms msges I have sent to her, and she's asking me to go check for her cos it's urgent. WHAT THE...!!!!!

What else can I do if there's no reception...no one is picking up the call...and I'm stuck in hospital huh?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

I'm so pissed..I wanted to just tell her "Look, I have done all I could. Stop demanding and insisting I get solved for u, when there's a lot of things u could have done it urself...like calling up the phone company!". But I can't, cos she's my friend...argh..

I had another issue similar to this 2 years ago too. That was a nightmare.

There's this girl in my Uni who was gonna be in 1st year. Being a senior, I expected her to feel lost and all alone. So I offered to help her in any way I could. Then she started pestering me day and night about her air ticket (I got Dad to book it) and if the flight's full, she'll start losing temper on me and insist I get it done for her (hello? wat u want me to do? throw passengers off the plane?). Note that I did not have a ticket for myself then too. And because she wanted me to go with her to UK, I had to get one for myself as well.

So off we went to UK together (finally), and I couldn't leave her alone and head back to where I was staying. I had my luggages with me, and when I got her settled with the arrangements on how the Uni's gonna send her to her accomodation, I left. Then I came back realising that my house was in a horrendous condition. It was so bad that I cannot possibly sleep in the house for a few nights. Then I had my Dad ringing me up when I was bothered enuff, telling me that THAT girl is crying in her room. She called home and told her parents that she feels alone and scared, and I'm not bothering about her. So her dad called mine and asked him what's going on. Hence, Dad called to tell me about what was going on. I was so mad when I heard about it. Just got so pissed that I told him I did not ignore her, and I'm having enuff trouble myself cos I can't even unpack my stuffs in the house with such a condition. I didn't even mention the attitude she gave me throughout the flight to Dad. She was the one ignoring me throughout the 16 hours' flight! And I was still trying very hard to wonder what's going on in her bloody head.

Finally, I decided to settle her problem first before mine. So I thought maybe I'll just bring her around to buy necessary stuffs, bring her to dinner so that she won't feel so lonely and scared. But the whole day, she gave me hell by not wanting to talk to me, and losing temper on me. I was so pissed I wish I could slap her manz...piece of shit! But I just didn't do anything..continued trying to coax her... (i was cursing inside though).

And because I was so worried she's gonna cry when she goes back (plus I needed a place to slp for the night), I told her I'll sleep over at her place. But when I was there, she continued ignoring me. I was unpacking her stuffs while she was having her shower. Then when she was all done, she just went to sleep.

The next day, I brought her out again. No change. Attitude. Not to mention she actually complaint hell loads to her parents...with all the ' I don't care about her' rubbish
(who's not caring for who manz). Dad, as usual, will then start ringing me up to ask me what's wrong and start lecturing and blaming me for the way she's feeling, without even know the situation.

I got so frustrated with her "F off" attitude, I decided to bunk in a hotel the next day. Dad was worried she will start crying in the night again, so he asked me to let her bunk in with me in the hotel. I insisted I'm gonna slp alone there, and I had enuff of her rubbish. I remember telling Dad that I'm not a nanny and to hell if she cries. I'm not gonna be there 24/7 and then casting all my other stuffs aside JUST BECAUSE she is crying over NOTHING. If she's got a valid reason, I probably won't be so pissed.

And u noe what? She didn't even the least appreciate anything I did for her. She only start pestering me if she demands I solve her problems or if she's in some kind of shitty biz. Not even a word of 'Thanx' from day 1. She didn't even bother to check if I've got my own problems solved. Even if I were to see her on the streets, she just ignore me completely, or if she's in a good mood, just a monotonous 'Hi'. And when she's got lobangs to get extra weight access for luggage (her dad noes someone in the airline we took), she didn't even offer to help me through when she bloody knows I've got excess. Cos Dad usually book the seats for me n her, so we're sitting together. Dad prefers me to sit in the aisle rather than the window. I guess her dad prefers her to sit in the aisle seat as well, so whenever it was time to check in, her dad will make sure she goes before me, and hence, she'll get the aisle seat and I'll be stuck with the window.

I guess Dad know how selfish that girl and her dad is, so he never lecture me again about anything regarding her. And from then on, we have got nothing more to do with her, which is GOOD!

Sigh..feeling much better after blogging now. Shall do some studying before I go out to settle some urgent biz.

Oh...Sophie asked if I wanna go clubbing tonight. She's pretty persistent, and said I should go out and have some crazy time. Hmm..should I go?