The scary part of guys revealed

I had the most shocking, interesting, amazing, amusing car ride back to Cardiff yesterday.

Raoul was kind enough to give me and Dan a lift back to Cardiff. And it was non stop talking in the car. It was great cos we got to know each other better, and for once, I know exactly what guys were thinking and the topics guys talk about.

First, it started off with girls. It was about how liberal and agressive girls are these days. There Raoul went on about how a girl he got acquainted at a pub asking him if he wants to go home tgt with her after a brief snog. I just can't imagine, but hey..it's UK..what u expect manz...

Then we went on discussing if sex is basically a western culture and sex in a relationship. According to Raoul, sex is part of the rship, and it's meaningless and absurd if u don't sleep with your partner when u're in a rship with him/her. That got me really worked up and I totally disagree with him, despite seeing the point that sex does bring a rship to a higher level.

And Raoul started asking if I will mind dating a white guy. Well, definitely I will have more to think about, but I will much prefer someone from home. I asked him if there is any white guy who doesn't believe in sex before marriage, and he started luffing, and said unless he's a staunch christian, if not, it's not possible. Hmm..is it that bad? But..deep down, I still firmly believe that there will be at least a white guy who isn't christian who will believe in sex only after marriage. :)

Dan and him then started asking me what I do I think about before I go into a rship, and it did amaze them. Dan described me as a girl who isn't looking for a bf but a husband...lol..how true. And he even said I'm mature and realistic. I was quite shocked when he said that. I was expecting him to have heard some rumours in the past from some ppl here, and probably see me as a flirt or an easy girl. I feel pretty consoled that he doesn't seem to see me that way.

Then..the insane part came...

Dan: I took a history from a patient, and she said her husband and her only have sex twice a week. That's really sad.

Raoul: Yeah. I would think it's under the low side, but if I have sex with my gf or wife twice a week, I shall be contented and not ask for more.

Me: WHAT?! TWICE A WEEK?! That's a lot!!!!

Dan and Raoul: No..it isn't!!!! It's pathetic!

Dan: How often you reckon will be enough?

Me: I dunno..maybe once a mth? Or..once or twice a year? Or...maybe when u want babies?

Dan: I really pity your husband in future, Michelle.

Raoul: HAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHA

Me: Then how much is enough?

Dan: I would think...5-7 a week is what I'll go for.

Me: R u crazy?! You think she won't be tired after work everyday?

Dan: Hello? She doesn't even have to do anything. She just have to lie there and we do the job. Guys just wanna make their girl feel good ok.

Me: *disgusted look*

Raoul: HAHAHHAHAHA

They then went on telling me that I'll think differently after I have my first sexual rship. Really meh? *doubtful look*

It then led on to whether I have anyone in mind. And when Raoul know that I'm not attached...

Raoul: Hey Daniel, maybe we can earn some revenue by starting a "Michelle goes for a date" similar to that of "The Bachelorette".

Daniel: Yeah..sounds like a good idea

Raoul: Michelle...how's that? We'll keep a lookout for u..and find u a husband.

Me: Err..hahah..go find one if u can..I bet u if u call for applicants, no one will apply

Raoul: Tell me your criteria

Me: *gives a list*

Raoul: Hahaha..no sleeping ard...and the 'no sex before marriage' bit. Hey Dan, maybe we can even go on to a Part 2 on "Michelle tries to keep her rship".

Dan: Hahaha...


That last bit from Raoul seem to have a 2nd meaning manz. Makes me wonder if I'm normal or not. Am I that bad ha?


(Oh..it's Jiao Joo's bday today..muahahahaahahaha....my memory very gd hor? I still rem it since 1o yrs ago...!!!)